The Zone

During a big change in your life, you can sometimes run, emotionally, off of the snowball effect that tends to onset, usually, around the three week mark. This is how long it takes an average person to build new neural pathways in her brain. This is true for me, and I have always heard that it takes an average person 21 to break an old, or start a new habit. By this time, if you stuck to your plan 100%, you should be kickin ass and making it look easy. This state of being is known by many names, but I've always called it....... SUPER DEDICATION MODE, or SDM (Not really. I don't have an acronym for my "the zone".)

Every time I've ever been in super dedication mode, I was on my A game in everything I did. In the gym, I'd workout twice as hard, I would get A's in school, and do better in life, generally. I don't know how I manage to lose that after I have it. Some people, you can see have it all the time, others will never experience the power of the 100.

I'm sure that I am actually smarter while in it, my mind is strong and positive, I tend to be a great deal more confident. I don’t second-guess myself and I've noticed that I’m more happy and, seemingly, lucky.

Now, the question would be, “How you obtain this level of peak performance and maintain a high level throughout the rest of your life?” One thing that has helped me through my addictions and troubles, is challenging myself to be better every day, and then auditing myself honestly each night. So, by waking up and thinking of how I will improve myself today, preparing and planning, taking action, and then finally measuring the results is a great place to start. This process is easy, and fun. Gamifying habit breaking is a must. Finding your own little advantages to breaking a nasty habit or forming a positive one is the backbone of the topic for this month, so it can’t be that easy.

No. In fact making a habit change, or, much more difficult, an addiction change, is just that: difficult. I want to remind you that anything worth doing is difficult. The more difficult, the better the reward for succeeding at it will be. The most difficult part may be over for a lot of you, if you have stuck with your New Year’s resolution. If you have, then you have almost created the habit, or broken it. You are much less likely to revert back to your unwanted behavior or lack thereof, so give yourself a pat on the back, just don’t take a break at this crucial time.

Breaks are hard to avoid, but you must keep in mind what goes on during a break. I can tell you that in my life, I’ve hit SDM twice. Both times it was punctuated by a break. These punctuations, in my case have lasted years. I just wonder where I’d be had I not taken the break. My advice for this is to make a written list of what may happen during your break, and if you can somehow continue your routine, possibly in a less functional manner, to decrease the likelihood of slipping back into the old habit and out of the zone.

During my time in the Army, I had a friend who introduced me to working out in a gym. He was my personal trainer, nutritionist and coach. He helped me reach a level I had not ever gotten close to prior to that. We worked out together for about six months and I was looking forward to time off and visit back home. I worked out harder and longer, ate better and even set my alarm to wake up in the middle of the night and drink a protein shake.

Once I got home and showed off to all my friends; which is one of the main reasons that I wanted to get fit in the first place, I felt like I didn’t have anything to work towards anymore. When I returned, I stopped going to gym altogether. Had I written out a list of anticipated obstacles for my upcoming visit and return to base, I would have been prepared to deal with them.

I have one other example that is so similar to the last one that there isn’t much of a reason to mention it. I know once I hit Super Dedication Mode again, within a couple of months, I will do what I can to keep it.

I hope you learn from my mistakes and prepare for unavoidable hiatuses in your life by preparing to maintain your mindset.

Anyone has the ability to make any change in their life as they see fit. The know-how is a different story. I don’t claim to have all of the answers, but I welcome comments and nuggets of wisdom for keeping yourself in the zone, in the comments section below.

Update on my New Year’s Resolutions:

I am completely failing at the main one: quitting smoking. I don’t want to talk about it. I will give another update soon and I’ll discuss the reasons for my failure.

I am happy to report that I have been working out on the planned schedule and doing cardio above what I had planned. I am eating right (for my diet) which means eating lots of protein all day, and lots of carbs in the morning.

I will keep you posted and with better news of my main resolution. Just because, I have given in several times, doesn't mean that I’m not closer to my goal than I was on the quit date and I must keep trying and not let myself get any leeway as far as allowing myself to smoke without getting disturbed about it. I know I will win this. A positive attitude is kindergarten for making change.

Thanks for reading and leave a comment. Let us know how you’re doing. It doesn’t have to be a NY resolution. It can be a today resolution. Make a commitment here and hold yourself accountable.

Maintaining Motivation

I've stuck to the schedule, thus far without incident. I am so sore from yesterday’s workout and I couldn't have done it without you guys; or at least knowing that I’d look like a fool to you guys if I didn’t. Thanks either way. I started off the new, lifelong health change by doing a body shock. I worked out muscles I haven’t felt in years. I plan to do a body shock for another 6 straight days to really get my muscles aware that this is really going to happen. Then, taking Creatine monohydrate, and whey protein (always), I’ll move on to the longer phase of isolating muscle groups, by day of the week when I've rested for two days after my last body shock workout. 

20 minutes after quitting smoking, your heart rate and blood pressure drop.

I want to put on about thirty pounds of lean muscle because I was so embarrassed that I have withered away to nothing. I said that I’d always be honest on this blog, so I weighed myself and am ashamed to report that I am only 158 lbs. I know some of you are like, “What’s the #@%*ing problem, I wish I could lose weight.” Trust me. It’s a problem. I worked out a lot when I was younger, but I've never weighed more than 205 lbs., which made me look like a monster because I’m normally so scrawny. 

12 hours after quitting smoking, the carbon monoxide level in your blood drops to normal.

My goal for the summer is to be at a solid 185 and in athletic shape. I am going to start taking a photo in the mirror every day, so at the end of the first 30 days, and also the six months, I can show a before and after. I do not want to show the before until the after is ready, though. It’s horrible. 

In 2010, 52.8 percent of cigarette smokers in Florida made a quit attempt.

My plan for dealing with growth plateaus and proactivity, is leaning on supplements and changing my workouts up, before the monotony sets in. I’ll start taking creatine next week for 10 days, because, even though most of the mass one gains (sorry ladies, 1 sec) is going to be lost, seeing the results fast is important to me. I know myself and to maintain motivation, I have to go look in the mirror after I’m pumped up from a workout and be able to tell a difference. 

Two weeks to three months after quitting, your circulation improves and your lung function increases.

If you have any tips of how you will create or maintain your motivation, please post it in the comments. Your mind is yours. Your thoughts are conjured by you. You are accountable for your actions. So, you also get to reap rewards from positive behaviors. The concepts that I am going to share are from a number of sources and I will try to find out where they all originated and give the discoverer credit. 

One to nine months after quitting smoking, coughing and shortness of breath decrease; cilia (tiny hair-like structures that move mucus out of the lungs) start to regain normal function in the lungs, increasing the ability to handle mucus, clean the lungs, and reduce the risk of infection.

If you lack motivation, I know of one quick exercise that will eliminate that lack today. If you can’t decide what you want to do, but have some ideas, I have a super simple way to make up your mind. If you are suffering from depression or any mental health issues, then please don’t mistake this for the prognosis of an expert. Seek medical treatment, but use this as well. 

About one year after quitting smoking, the excess risk of coronary heart disease is half that of a continuing smoker's risk.

Speaking of smoker's risk:

This is what happens when you drop your lighter
under your seat. Or, when you drink and get behind
the wheel. One of those two, I can't remember, this
used to happen so often,

I am not sure if I am ready to commit to quit something destructive in my life, or begin something great. This is how Benjamin Franklin made decisions, or that’s how the story goes. He would draw a line down the middle of a sheet of paper and one side would represent the pros, the other would represent the cons. This practice is widely used in sales, with uncertain prospects. If you know that the pros of buying your product or service outweigh the cons, this is an easy way to get a visual on all of the information that has to be taken into account to make a decision. 

15 years after quitting smoking, the risk of coronary heart disease is that of a non-smoker's risk.

10 years after quitting smoking, the risk of dying from lung cancer is about half that of a person who is still smoking.

If you know that your resolution is important to do, but you can’t seem to get your butt in gear, try this: Close your eyes. Think of a time, down the road from now, and focus on that time in your future. Spend 3-10 minutes visualizing your life, one, five, ten years from now, if you do the thing you want to. However, before you visualize that, take the same amount of time, with your eyes closed visualizing the effects that this thing will have on your life if you don't stick to your resolution. If you have a strong resolution with solid benefits, it will hard to sit there and imagine your life. You will want to get up and do something about it. 

Evidence-based cessation counseling and FDA-approved nicotine replacement therapies (NRTs) provided by the program can double to triple your chances of successfully quitting.

Now, this exercise only works if you do it. Try one minute on each if you're too busy. Anyone can spare 2 minutes to manufacture the motivation you’ll need to stick to your resolution. I also want to quickly point out the power of doing a little research on your issue. I found some really great information in seconds about the benefits of quitting tobacco, and I will list them below. If your resolution is anything else, I’d suggest that you look up the benefits, or even get them from your Benjamin Franklin list. But, to keep your motivation up, you have to know why you are doing the things that you are. I imagine they won’t be pleasant for the most part, so it is easy to just give up. Don’t ignore the impact your resolution will have on your life. Find out all you can about the changes that are going to take place, as you start a new habit or quit an old one.

About five years after quitting smoking, stroke risk can fall to that of a non-smoker's risk and, risk of cancer of the mouth, throat, esophagus, and bladder are cut in half. Cervical cancer risk falls to that of a non-smoker.

The first time I heard of this, Tony Robbins, a self-help guru whom I highly recommend, implored his audio audience to pull over and take the couple of minutes to see the results in their lives. I did this exercise and realized immediately some of the things that I must do in my life. This little powerful practice is called meditating. I know that it is somewhat taboo, and that’s a shame, because everyone should experience the life changing effects of different kinds of meditation. 

Most former smokers made several attempts before finally quitting permanently. The average smoker attempts to quit between eight and 11 times before succeeding.

In my opinion, an individual must become brutally honest with herself to make this thing work. I often see people that make excuses for their own status quo, when they obviously want to break away from it. Tomorrow, we will explore how to do this with psychological sciences. Keep up the good work and take control of your life today. You can change anything and you can change it in an instant. Once you realize your power to change the things under your direct control (you), you’ll love making changes and it won’t be so overwhelming. Old habits don’t die easy.

""Lift off" takes a tremendous effort, but once we break out of the gravity pull, our freedom takes on a whole new dimension.”  

--Stephen R. Covey

See ya, tomorrow!

The number of American adults, aged 18 and older, who smoked cigarettes declined from 20.9 percent in 2005 to 19.3 percent in 2010. This translates to 3 million fewer smokers.

Not only are there fewer smokers, but smokers are also smoking less. The number of adult smokers who smoke 30 or more cigarettes a day decreased to 8.3 percent in 2010, compared to 12.7 percent in 2005.

While fewer American adults are smoking, the rate of decline between 2005 and 2010 is slower than in the previous five-year period (2000-2005).

Since the Bureau of Tobacco Prevention Program (BTPP) was re-instated in 2007, adult smoking prevalence has declined, resulting in about 500,000 fewer adult smokers in Florida.

63.5 percent of adults who have ever smoked have quit and there are more former smokers in Florida than current smokers.

There are more former cigarette smokers than current cigarette smokers in Florida. 29.8 percent of adults in Florida are former cigarette smokers. Go Florida!

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